Well, my heart got crushed again and again, yet I have been trying so hard to protect it but even protecting it didn't help. Yes, I am married but I did have an affair with someone I should have left in my past. He loved to drink and start fights when I was happy. He said he was in it for my heart but all he did was crush it by calling me names someone that truly loves you shouldn't call you. He also liked to say I am just like his ex's even tho I never gave him any reason to say that. I went down to see him all the time and he only came up maybe 4 to 5 times. I made more trips to see him than he made to see me. He complained that he would have to spend money, but to me if you love someone you would do what you could see them with no excuses, am I right? He don't like that I talk to my co-workers and only wants me to talk to him but yet he can talk and flirt with females while I am talking to him, this is not fair. He kept saying we're done but says he didn't mean it, and believe him. He threatens to kill himself and since he said it all the time, I stopped believing him, cause to him it is a game. He thinks I am playing games with him but he is so blind that he don't see he was the one playing the games with my heart, I didn't play any games with his heart. How do you get someone like that to see how they are hurting you and get them to change or do you think they will ever change? I will explain more later, cause there is a lot more to say about this guy.